Why should you be happy ?

Because you deserve it ..

Hadeelrifaeee
3 min readDec 15, 2021

We all dream of full happiness , life without problems , without fear ..

Until we wake up , and see the reality which burn every piece of us … and we then give up again ..

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Until our thoughts convince us that life is hard and we don’t deserve the happiness .. we haven’t been created to be happy .. we’ve been created to struggle … and all these bad thoughts ..

Now I won’t tell you that your anxiety is lying to you .. because your feelings matter .. all your feelings are true , but your thoughts are not …

Life usually is full of sadness and in the same time is full of happiness.. but we always ignore the second until we don’t feel it anymore … do you think those who are always happy don’t have issues … struggles .. or bad moments ??

Of course they do , but they focus on the happiness, on the good things they have .. on the blessing that god gave them .. and of course he has given you a lot of blessings , just sit and count them …

Bro .. you should be happy because you deserve it … because you was born to dance , to laugh and to fight happily ..

You should be happy because happiness isn’t something that you should wait for … happiness is something you should create and search for , life will never give you the happiness , life is hard , happiness is within you … get it now …

So what is happiness ?

Happiness is a feeling tells you that everything around you is going well , and you’re safe …

So How can we feel that feeling ?

1- Count the good things you have .. like :

- You can walk when there’s a lot of people don’t have feet …

- You can speak and express yourself when a lot of people can’t ..

- You have good health

- You have friends

- You are living in a planet full of good sources of energy .. full of good places , sky , clouds , flowers .. full of wonderful smells .. enjoy all of these ..

- And a lot of good things ..

2- Count the little details .. don’t miss anything …

3- you get the feeling of happiness when you remind yourself every time you go through a hardship that this time will end .. this hardship will end … this struggles will gone .. and you’ll be fine …

4- god is with you.. the one who has the unlimited power loves you and will never leave you .. is it hard to him to get you out of these bad times ?? is it hard to him to end all these bad times ?? trust him !!!

I’ve never been in a hardship and allah let me alone … he was always with me .. I swear every time I needed the help he sent me a miracle .. I still don’t understand how he picked me up from some situations when I was fully down !!!

5- you deserve the happiness …

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Hadeelrifaeee
Hadeelrifaeee

Written by Hadeelrifaeee

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