Help someone to feel free!

have you ever been in a conversation with someone and suddenly that conversation leaded to a sad point , or you mentioned something sad about that person and then you apologized for reminding him of that pain ?? …

i’m here to tell you that don’t apologize anymore … and i’ll tell you why …

when you have the chance to listen to someone broken … go for it … do a favor and help that person to heal again , because people heal when they feel understood and heard …

for example … people always say sorry when something happens between our conversation and it reminds me of my dead brother … they always apologize for reminding me of that heavy pain i hold in my heart …

but ! what do they apologize for that ?

in fact , people need to talk about their pain much more than hide and ignore it … a person needs to share his heavy grief with someone who can kindly sew his inner injuries … so when you make someone ignore that wide inner injur , it will bleed more and more untill it kills that person …

help your people get rid of their heavy words they have in their heart … help them feel comfortable to the point that they have all the ability to talk about their pain arround you … help them talk about it even with stupid words… even when they don’t make any sence , let them talk about it with a complete freedom …

don’t ignore someone’s pain …